Sunday, July 31, 2016

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Wednesday, July 31

Wonderful news. Dramatic improvement this morning confirms first diagnosis of hydrocephalus. We are beginning a 24 hour urine collection test this morning that will confirm diagnosis of the second problem. For this reason we will stay at Deb's for another night, because I can't be gone all day preparing our room to stay at home. We have an appointment tomorrow at 2:15 with a neurologist and need to set up an appointment with his primary care physician. Progress.

Deborah’s report continued:
Wrote a blog post with a bit more info-- mostly from a phone conversation Mom had with Aunt Betty that I overheard. Dad is now sleeping in the living room with a blanket over his head. I'd be too hot! Mom is typing updates in various languages for the various people she needs to update.

Deb’s blog:
I don't think Dad really wanted me to take his picture while they were eating breakfast, but I did anyway. 



Okay, not the best picture, but it's a picture. "Proof of life," I said. I mentioned I felt we hadn't had enough updates lately. Mom said something like, "But I was updating all the time." "It felt like that to you," I said.

Dad is talking a little more slowly and deliberately than usual. He shared with me how tough it is when his legs get tired. He said he goes into a deep squat and can't get up again so he falls over. He said then people have to help him up, and that's hard. We talked about what a blessing it is for people to help. When we serve others we love them more. "That's why everyone loved you so much in the hospital," Mom told him. "Even the second time when he wasn't as sick, the cleaning ladies prayed for him."

Dad also shared how they came to come home. His version was a little different than Mom's but basically the same information. The first time Dad got sick the mission president wanted them to stay, their home stake president felt good about them staying, and Mom and Dad wanted to stay. The second time, Elder Nelson said, "Tell them to come home." And the home stake president felt like that was the right thing to do. Timing all worked out and was right. Mom mentioned yesterday wondering why it was important to stay the first time. Then we talked about all the extra missionary work they were able to do the second time they went to the hospital.

Mom just got off the phone with Betty not too long ago. It was interesting to hear what she said. She mentioned that they got to know a different set of people this last time in the hospital. She said, "We did more missionary work in the eleven weeks we were in the hospital than while we were in Victoria," but I could tell when she thought about it she realized they did a lot there too. I'm sure the hospital time was particularly intense. 

She mentioned that the first time Dad was at the hospital she couldn't sleep there. But it prepared her to be able to stay for the five weeks where she did sleep at the hospital. If you can call that sleep. She said it was important for her to be there to ensure that Dad was getting the care he needed, to translate what his needs were, and to make sure the medications were administered properly.

She explained to Betty about the hydrocephalus like she mentioned on facebook. Apparently he's going to have to drink only a liter of fluid a day to help with that. "I only gave him about a fourth of a cup of orange juice this morning." Also, she mentioned the second test is checking to see if certain hormones are deficient and telling his body to get rid of salt. Mom was telling Betty how they brought the records on cds and papers. The cds held images from all the tests. The doctors at the U. of U. were able to get everything they needed right away and compare yesterday's tests with the ones they had done in Chile. They also used a translator to get the information they needed from everything. What a blessing that all that happened so relatively quickly. What a blessing that Mom and Dad were able to get some clear answers yesterday. Hopefully that trend will continue.

Mom mentioned that Dad will need to have some physical therapy. She said the parts of the brain that are having trouble and giving his muscles trouble will be compensated for by other parts of the brain. He just needs to reaffirm and strengthen those connections. She also said that he very likely won't have to stay in the hospital for this. They do everything they can from home as far as testing and administering of antibiotics. He just has to return for appointments. Mom is confident that she can take care of Dad at home.

She was telling Betty that when they were going through customs when they arrived to the U.S., the officer wasn't sure whether or not it was safe to let Dad in the country-- whether or not he was contagious or healthy enough to be there. Mom showed him the document they had that was in Spanish, but they couldn't read it. Plus Mom and Dad were early enough that the medical people at the airport weren't in yet. Mom and Dad were tired and had to catch a flight. They had Dr. Mikesell with them. Dad looked okay. So the customs people sent him through. I just thought that was interesting. 

She mentioned that it shouldn't take too long to get their rooms ready. She just needs to get the key and see how things have held up in there. The rooms have been locked up and closed for the time they have been gone. Mom said there may be a few piles she can move into the spare bedroom. She just needs to go through things. With this test that Dad needs to do, it's best if she isn't away from him too long. He's most comfortable with her help. So having another day here to get that test done will simplify things for them and give them that time.

I feel honored and blessed to be able to help. I'm so glad things worked out so that John and Jen and family could have their desired time in Provo and stay with Aunt Betty. It sounds like they are having a lot of adventures-- climbing Timp this morning in the wee hours! 

I will continue to share whatever I can remember to share. I know I would want to know all this if I didn't know it.

I wrote a letter to Dr. Mikesell, the mission doctor in Santiago to thank him for accompanying us home and to give him a summary:

We were in the emergency room for about 9 or 10 hours, but were not admitted to the hospital. We met with a wonderful team of neurologists and different doctors. The copied the CDs from Chile and went through all the paper records. They did a Brain Scan and compared it with earlier ones. They diagnosed the major problem as hyponatremia and identified two possible causes: hydrocephalus and SIADH. Comparing the scans, the ventricles are enlarged. They did a lumbar puncture to extract fluid and lessen pressure. Dramatic improvement this morning confirms the hydrocephalus diagnosis.

They also are convinced that he has SIADH Syndrome of inappropriate antidiuretic hormone secretion. They will confirm this diagnosis with a 24 hour urine collection test and then compare the sodium in the urine with the sodium level in his blood. They are also restricting him to a maximum of one liter of liquids a day. V8 juice and salty soups wouldn't count against him. Interesting that they said Gatorade doesn't help and may make matters worse.

We have an appointment with a neurologist on Thursday to bring in the urine bottle and make plans for physical therapy to help different parts of the brain take over the brain muscle connection and become habitual enough to be automatic. They could put in a brain shut to take care of the hydrocephalus but will do non surgical things first to try to take care of everything.

He will also work directly with his primary care physician to deal with the asthma etc. They were adamant that he not take the anti parasite meds. One doctor said he didn't like the idea of the mission giving the meds to departing missionaries without provision for followup medical at home. I took mine anyway because I had already taken the first set of white pills.

The stake president met us in the emergency room and had a sweet visit. He released us from our mission and told us to leave on our missionary badges until we went to bed. We spent the night at our daughter's home so she could feed us dinner and we could go right to bed without worrying about getting our bedroom ready at home. We feel at peace with coming home and very grateful for the time we were able to spend in Chile.

You would be amazed to see how well Elder Babcock did this morning. Without sitting down. He walked and dressed and showered and ate. It is very exciting to see potential for continued improvement.

Thank you so much for everything.

Deborah’s reports continued:

Dad is taking another nap (downstairs this time). He was feeling "a little fuzzy in the head," was having trouble thinking clearly. But he played a game of Uno with Owen. Mom has been over at the house getting things ready. Becca is helping. Dad wants Mom to have the freedom she needs, so he doesn't want her to hurry back. Things seem to be going okay.


Mom and Dad went for a short walk this evening after dinner. Dad was walking pretty fast tonight-- still shuffling a little still, but moving faster than earlier today. Seems really alert tonight too. I'm glad he's feeling better.

Saturday, July 30, 2016

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

History of a Miracle Part 4
Home again and Complete Recovery

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

It has been a very good flight. We were all able to get some sleep. Up early for bathroom and breakfast. The doctor has done most of the bathroom assistance.  We found a lot of family waiting at the airport. Here is one report shared by Deborah:

Becca, Chris, and Simon were already at the airport and waiting when we arrived. Mom and Dad's bishop arrived soon after we did. Mom and Dad's flight was early (10:12 landing) but they didn't come downstairs to where we were waiting for a little more than a half hour. In that time, John and Jen and family, Emma, and Steven and Alysa and Laura all arrived. John, Evelyn, and Mezgeb went up on the elevator just as Mom and Dad reached it. They road down with Dad while Mom walked down the stairs. Simon made a welcome home sign. We all gave hugs.


They both seemed very happy and much more awake than I expected them to be. The mission doctor looked tired, but relieved. We walked over to the luggage area and then it seemed all too soon when it was time to leave. Becca took them to the hospital. Dad seems really well though. I was happily surprised. So maybe they won't need to stay at the hospital.

The biggest impression I got was a sense of peace. It all felt so right to see them here. Dad emits humility and light. Mom just seemed so happy. They both did. Dad mentioned a little difficulty remembering names, but seemed to recognize everyone and cared to give everyone a hug. An airport assistant was pushing the wheelchair. She inadvertently got Dad separated from Mom for a little while Mom was going through bags and finding what they needed to take to the hospital. "Would you mind taking me over there?" he asked the attendant so nicely. He wanted to be closer to Mom.

It was wonderful to see them and also to be in the airport with all of us together.



Our bishop is on the left talking with our youngest daughter.  I didn’t know bishops came to the airport.




Granddaughters are comparing unintentional matching green nail polish. Waiting.

We were met by our family at the airport, four of our eight children and their families.  Ken came down the elevator and I took the escalator with Mezgeb, our new Ethiopian granddaughter. 



Our daughter Becca continued to send updates to our family Facebook group:

We are in the emergency room now at the U.

On the way up, Dad was concerned about not having a phone or car. Thanks to Steven, they have a working cell phone. When I said there is a car here at the hospital, he said "Why? What's wrong with it?" Sense of humor intact. : )

Doctor is here now. Was surprised at the massive pile of medical records.

The neurologist and a 4th year neurologist student just left. They did an exam and just left with the huge pile of records from Chile. They are going to have to have them translated and review them, and then they'll come back and talk to us more.

We don't know for sure yet if he will be admitted, but mom thinks he will be. Mom said she needs to stay here until they know what's going on for sure. I need to leave in about half an hour to take Simon to football.

 So, when I was there, the neurologists think his problems are primarily from something called SIADH. It explains a lot. They were going to do a spinal tap, then send them home.

Sounds like they will be coming home tonight.

We were assured that our home was ready to come home to.  The family had done what they could to prepare for our return, but we had locked the doors to the two bedrooms upstairs, and I knew there were some things that I would have to take care of before we could move back in. Our daughter Deborah Koehler offered her home to us for as long as we needed it. She became the one to report on us.

As soon as they can leave the hospital (hopefully soon) they will be coming to stay the night at my house. I have dinner ready for them and a bed. They're hungry and very tired. Tomorrow Mom will go to the house and get it ready for them. I will continue to update. Dad will stay here while Mom gets the house ready. I'm so glad.

Still not here yet. I'll let you know when they arrive.

Arrived safely ten minutes ago or so. Tired and hungry and eating, but happy and talkative. Mom is encouraged by the information she received today. [We got there about 9:15 p.m.]

It has been quiet in the basement. Hopefully that means they've been sleeping well. Lately, the children have been sleeping in until 9 or 10 so it will stay quiet for a while. I just wish it was warmer downstairs. I gave Mom an extra blanket.

While they ate, it was fun to hear about some of the foods Mom and Dad ate in Chile and the way people said things. I'm still impressed by how awake they were this evening despite their very long day. Apparently, they drained fluid from Dad's spinal column today which lowers the pressure on his brain and should help things get better very quickly. He walked all the way down our stairs and down a long hallway with little need for support. It's so good to have them here. I hope they sleep well.


[Notes written the next morning.] It has been amazing to be able to talk to doctors in English and ask questions and understand their answers. We spent 9 or 10 hours in the emergency room yesterday. Because it is a teaching hospital we had opportunities to talk to many different neurologists and neurologists in training and I could ask all of my questions. We were not admitted to the hospital, but they did a procedure that resulted in dramatic improvement in mobility. Ken will be able to function at home and get out patient help. We look forward to continuing improvement. We will be sleeping at Koehlers tonight. They did the lumber puncture. We have to wait for them to have time to give me instructions about a 24 hour urine sample. They have diagnosed two conditions that should give us potential for great and immediate improvement. President Newbold came by for a release interview while we were still in the hospital. He instructed us to leave on our missionary badges until we go to bed tonight. He was still in town helping with a family medical situation. We feel greatly blessed and happy to be home. They did a lumbar puncture last night and removed a lot of spinal fluid and pressure. That is why the improvement this morning.